In this episode, I sit down again with Dr. Jason Kuhl, Chief Medical Officer at Providence Medford Medical Center and a returning voice on the podcast. Our conversation centers on real-world scenarios, situations leaders face every day, and how to navigate them with judgment, awareness, and discipline.

We begin with a simple but powerful idea: being right is not the same as being effective. Dr. Kuhl shares a moment where a physician raised valid concerns, but the tone and delivery were working against any real resolution. That leads us into a deeper discussion on emotional intelligence, what it actually looks like in practice and why it determines whether you keep your seat at the table.

From there, we explore how strong leaders handle tension. Instead of reacting with judgment, Dr. Kuhl emphasizes curiosity. Asking better questions, assuming good intent, and recognizing that many issues that look like individual mistakes are often system failures underneath.

We also talk about restraint in leadership. In high-stakes environments, the instinct is often to move quickly and assign blame. But Dr. Kuhl makes the case for slowing down, validating the facts, and protecting both people and process before jumping to conclusions.

The conversation closes with a broader look at culture and how leaders create environments where people can speak openly, handle pressure, and still treat others with respect.

The takeaway is this: strong leaders don’t just aim to be right, but they aim to be effective, thoughtful, and intentional in how they lead.

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